Want to improve your leadership skills? Become a mentor.

So what is mentoring?

I see mentoring as a strategy for knowledge exchange, very much led by the mentee or learner. In its traditional form, it is a one-to-one relationship in which the mentor may be a more experienced individual or have experience in the role or area that the mentee is seeking to understand.


The mentor provides guidance where needed but most importantly they create a space where the mentee can explore issues, gain insight and develop solutions to the issues which may be hindering their growth.


While there are synergies with teaching, coaching and other forms of one-to-one developmental relationships, the key differentiator in mentoring is the absence of giving direct instructions to the mentee and the fact that the mentor may have experience in the role the mentee is hoping to develop into.

What skills and attributes are needed to be a mentor?

Deciding to become a mentor to others is one of the most generous acts that an individual can undertake for another person. It is no surprise therefore that the role tends to attract people with a desire to “give back” in some way or to ensure that others can gain the support needed to fully realise their talent.



“Growing other leaders from the ranks isn’t just the duty of the leader, it’s an obligation.” – Warren Bennis



The key skill needed as a mentor is the ability to listen without prejudice and in a world filled with ever-growing distractions the art and skill of truly listening to another person may soon be lost.

Full and active listening is the foundation on which the attributes of good mentors are built including:

  • The ability to build rapport with their mentoring partner

  • The ability to create Trust, to be able to rely on a person’s honesty or have confidence in them.

  • The fundamental ability to communicate effectively with their partner

  • The ability to Empathise with another person’s perspective, situation or feelings


“In order to be a mentor, and an effective one, one must care. You must care. You don’t have to know how many square miles are in Idaho, you don’t need to know what is the chemical makeup of chemistry, or of blood or water. Know what you know and care about the person, care about what you know and care about the person you’re sharing with.” – Maya Angelou


But surely to be a good mentor I need to be older? Super experienced? Or to have had a near perfect career?

Being a mentor is about the “finished article”. In reality, the best mentors are self-aware and understand their own strengths and shortcomings and they are able to use the lessons they have learned to support their mentee.

“There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in.” – Leonard Cohen


It would be easy to imagine that you need to have near-celebrity status in your given discipline to be considered mentoring material - in the programmes I’ve run and the mentoring that I’ve experienced, knowing that my mentor was not perfect, (just like me) really helped to put things into perspective and gave additional credibility to their feedback and comments.


Developing your leadership skills

I am a huge believer in the potential for mentoring to transform the lives of both mentees and mentors. I’ve developed and managed mentoring programmes for over 8 years now and I am constantly amazed and humbled by the positive changes reported by many of the individuals seeking support and those so generously giving their time to others.

While the positive impacts for mentees are expected, it is the way in which the mentors report that they improve their skills as leaders which is most impressive.

Becoming a mentor often offers an opportunity to review your own career, better understand your approach to communication with others or develop a greater awareness of your own management style. All of this and more helps mentors to develop and hone their skills as leaders.

Built By Us is seeking mentors to support new and budding entrepreneurs through the Shape Programme. If you have the commitment and passion to offer your experience and time, do contact us. We’d love to hear from you.

The FLUID Programme - meet one of our mentees Baldeep

Baldeep is a recent qualified Architect with three years’ post part II experience. She has been working at Formation Architects for the past two years in the planning team working on a number of projects in the Residential and Commercial sector both autonomously and as part of a team.

Q1 How did you hear about the FLUID Mentoring programme and why did you decide to get involved?


A previous colleague now friend Vinesh recommended the programme to me. At the time I had just completed my part II studies and there were many characteristics I wanted to build on. I saw the FLUID programme as a great opportunity in furthering my potential within the architectural industry, as I was unsure how to approach these on my own.


Q2 How has the FLUID programme impacted you?

As a mentee having the opportunity of being mentored has been very valuable and having access has allowed me to gain the right guidance and support in allowing me to progress with my career aspirations.

This is my second year of the programme as a mentee. My first mentor Jade Chau of Bennett’s Associates helped me with building confidence in the workplace. With my current mentor Tara Gbolade of Gbolade Design Studio (GDS), we are looking at networking and how to become a future leader within the profession.


Having attended the Women in Architecture events held at the RIBA in March 2018 I came across many women leaders within the profession which was an eye-opener and made me realise there was a change in the number of women in senior and leadership roles. However, diversity within the construction profession still seemed to be limited. I would like to see more women of diversity in these senior and leadership roles so that they can be role models for women like me who are just starting out in their career.

It would have been great to have a role model or mentor whilst I was growing up to support and encourage me along the way, especially someone of a similar background. Having been given the opportunity to be mentored has encouraged me to try and get involved with mentoring the younger generation. So, I hope to give back the support I have been given in the future.

Q3 Why do you think others should get involved?

Mentoring should be accessible for all those who require it. Whether you would like to mentor or be mentored, the experience will be rewarding regardless. I encourage everyone to show their support for the FLUID programme as this programme encourages on building a diverse community of individuals within the construction industry. 


The 1st Women In Construction Summit 2018

Addressing equality, diversity and inclusion creatively

On Tuesday 6th March, I had the pleasure of taking part in the UK’s first Women In Construction Summit and it was incredibly exciting! I have worked in the construction sector for over 25 years and it cannot be underestimated how inspirational it was to meet and speak with women from across the sector, engaged in everything from crane driving to development, to learn from their experiences and hear about the amazing work that they are doing to improve diversity for this industry.

I was delighted to speak as part of a panel discussion and share my personal story...

From Spark to Social Entrepreneur

I started my career in this incredibly exciting industry 30 years ago - I am an architect, a former electrician. I am now a social entrepreneur. I am also a board member for 2 charities and an elected member of the ARB.

I am a black, British female of Jamaican heritage and like the majority of people in the UK I attended a comprehensive secondary school. I am from a single parent family and our level of income meant that I qualified for free schools meals.

I know that this is not the typical background or profile of an architect, a board member or a professional, and throughout my career, I haven’t met a lot of people like me, and I think that is a huge shame.


Why Built By Us?

My experiences have been a huge inspiration in founding Built By Us, whose mission is to diversify the construction sector because I hate to see wasted talent. In construction, we have become too used to believing that the talent to design, construct and maintain one of our greatest assets, the built environment, comes in a particular package.

Built By Us exists to challenge the lazy preconceptions that have been allowed to flourish in our culture about who in our society has the potential for greatness, and to provide a space for that potential to grow.

The challenges I have faced on my career journey are not just about gender, they are also about educational structures, access to networks, stereotyping, access to financial support and challenging work cultures, all of which work together against the most vulnerable to create a series of barriers.

Having worked in the construction sector for three decades and over that time seeing modest improvements in diversity, I believe that D&I have been perceived as “too hard” for too long.

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Fit for the Future

As an industry we are a sector of problem solvers, we can create places, spaces and buildings which offer shelter, inspiration or connection but when it comes to diversity we have become stuck in conservative ways of thinking.

I believe that diversity, along with technology, is the disruption that we have been waiting for, because it will help us to:

  • Innovate - new people ask the most important question in business, which is “Why?”

  • Fundamentally shift the image of this industry in a positive direction

  • Reflect the society that we collectively serve

If we as an industry can approach the challenges creatively, we have the potential to create an industry that is not only fit for the future but one which creates a better built environment, designed, constructed and maintained by all, for all.

My 3 Takeaways from the Event

Fundamentally the most exciting aspect of the event was around how many people want to improve diversity and understand the business case for making this change.

Here are my 3 takeaways on how change is being made:

  1. Procurement is a powerful catalyst for change - In an informative presentation by Kate Hall - Design Director at High Speed Rail 2 (HS2) and Alice Jennison - EDI Manager at Costain Skanska Joint Venture, they shared how HS2 as commissioner and client is challenging and supporting their supply chain in making change.

  2. Women are changing the business model - Founder of Golden Houses Developments Monika Slowikowska, is putting inclusive leadership at the heart of what it does, and the approach is paying dividends in reduced levels of conflict which is increasing productivity and profits.

  3. More attention to detail required - One of the biggest reactions from the delegates (who were 95% female) was an image showing that Personal Protective Equipment (PPE Clothing) was available in sizes and designs to suit a range of women including modest/hijab friendly and for women during maternity. We don’t just need to encourage more women into construction, as an industry we must ensure that industry is prepared with the right tools to retain this talent and ensure that we create a more inclusive future.

Guest blog | How to land an entry-level job in construction by Laura Slingo

There’s undeniable evidence that the construction industry is crucial to the success of the UK’s economy, as not only does it generate revenue over £110 billion every year, it’s also responsible for 10% of the nation’s total employment.

Despite the ongoing skills shortages, the construction industry is in robust shape, particularly for graduates. The average starting salary in construction stands at £29,530, placing it second in the best-paid sectors for grads.

In addition, CV-Library’s data showed that average salaries for the industry were at a significant high in December 2017, up 3.5% month-on-month. Data also shows that the advertised jobs in the sector have increased by 4.6% year-on-year, suggesting that construction is a top industry to look for work in 2018.

To land a graduate job in this growing and rewarding industry, check out the following tips.


Tailor your CV to the role and industry

It would be unwise to send out a generic CV and hope to hear back from prospective employers. Graduate jobs in the construction industry are highly sought-after due to their tempting salaries and are therefore incredibly competitive.

A successful CV is one that is tailored to the job description. To target your CV effectively, read through the job spec, identify where your abilities match the requirements and pull out keywords and phrases. Then pepper your CV with these terms to make it clear to the prospective employer that you’re a fit for the position.


Format your CV to highlight your skills

As a graduate, you may be struggling to format your CV, especially if you’ve never written one or have little work experience.

Start with your name and contact details, including your phone number and email address. There’s no need to include your full home address; your town and county will do.

Next comes your personal profile which is a short, snappy paragraph introducing the employer to your graduate status, your skills and your career goals.

If your education is more impactful than your employment history so far, list this next. Zoom in on the hard and soft skills you picked up throughout university and the classification you obtained. Since your degree will take up a lot of space on your CV, you can condense other grades and qualifications into one line, rather than listing every single A level or GCSE certificate, for example.

Up next is your employment history. If you haven’t had a lot of industry experience, you can retitle this section to read “projects and placements” or “projects, placements and work experience”. Detail key modules and projects from in and out of university in the same way you would any other position of employment to compensate.

Remember to keep your points tailored to the job description at all times; detail examples of skills that the prospective employer values most.


Diversify your job search

If you want to land a job in construction, it’s important to utilise a variety of job searching tools to make sure you don’t miss an opportunity. However, it’s equally important to conduct a manageable search, so try to avoid overwhelming yourself.

Consider signing up to job boards like CV-Library that host thousands of jobs from top companies and recruitment agencies. Not only can you search for the latest jobs, but you can also increase your chances of being headhunted and pitched job opportunities by consultants.

It’s also worth registering with a generalist or construction-focused recruitment agency. The expert consultants can work with you and pitch you the freshest construction jobs as soon as they become available.

Other great ways to search for a graduate construction job include browsing employers’ websites, checking out postings on social media and networking with your lecturers and fellow alumni.

Even though reports suggest that the robots will snatch approximately 600,000 builders’ jobs in the UK by 2040, you must remember that modern construction jobs extend beyond the building trade. Use these tips to land a graduate role in the industry and let your rewarding career commence.

About the author: Laura Slingo is Digital Copywriter for the UK’s leading independent job board, CV-Library. For more expert advice on job searches, careers and the workplace, visit their Career Advice pages.

Six Tips on Being a Brilliant Mentee

Why mentoring?

Mentoring strategies have grown in use in business and professional settings over the last few years and for a very good reason. The benefits of mentoring as a method of sharing knowledge and experience in a learner-led format are huge. I champion mentoring as it is a fantastic mix of support and continuing professional development which is beneficial for both sides of the partnership, developing key skills in communication, resilience, confidence, leadership and self-awareness.


The FLUID Diversity Mentoring Programme, which is run by Built By Us, is now in its fifth year and is the longest-running pan-professional, inter-business career mentoring programme for built environment professionals. Designed to support career progression and develop leadership skills among underrepresented practitioners, FLUID has inspired renewed interest in mentoring in construction and helped individuals to realise their goals -  from increasing the value they add to their organisations, developing as leaders and assisting them in starting their own enterprises.


Six Tips on getting the best from the mentoring experience

So how as a mentee can you get the best from the mentoring experience?  Here are 6 tips:

  1. Expect to work hard - as a mentee you are the engine of your partnership and your mentor is more like the steering wheel. This means it is your energy, effort and input that takes the partnership forward. While it may be tempting to take a back seat and hope that your mentor will lead, this strategy can backfire, taking many a partnership off track. As a mentee don’t be afraid to take the initiative with your mentor. Don’t wait or expect to be led, take ownership and initiate communication, ask questions and share your thoughts.
  2. Expect support, not miracles. Your mentor is not there to solve all of your problems for you. The value that a mentor brings is to provide new perspective, the benefit of their experience and to act as a sounding board. They may also be able to help identify other individuals, resources or networks for assistance.
  3. Be teachable - actively listen and be open to learning new things.  Hearing and responding to constructive feedback is an important part of the process along with reflecting on your conversations.
  4. Respect your mentor’s time - Take a look at your calendar right now - chances are that your diary is pretty full and it is the same for your mentor too! If you know that you have periods in the future where you are going to be swamped or offline, let your mentor know. By the same token make sure that you are not overburdening your mentor with emails, for example, several emails a day or week (unless this had been initiated). Book appointments for discussions.
  5. Focus on building a relationship - Building a relationship takes time and the quickest way to damage it is through lack of patience. You’ve met that person who within a very short space of time, he or she starts asking for stuff! Annoying isn’t it? It is important to devote the majority of your time to building a rapport with your mentoring partner; take the time to get to know them, communicate clearly and correct any misunderstandings.
  6. Follow up - If you decide to take action on an issue raised in your mentoring session, let your mentor know. Feedback is important for your mentor too and it is encouraging when both you and your mentor can share your progress.

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No More Wasted Talent

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One of the most difficult questions I am asked on a daily basis is “What do you do?” I am an architect, a former electrician, a social entrepreneur and founder of Built By Us, and I’m honoured to be a charity Trustee and an elected member of the Architects Registration Board (ARB).

I am an individual who wears many hats and assumes different professional identities. What drives my work is that I hate to see wasted talent. And in construction and architecture, we have become too used to believing that talent comes in a particular package. My belief is that we need to challenge the lazy preconceptions that have been allowed to flourish in our culture about who in our society has the potential for greatness and to provide a safe space for the potential to grow.

I am also a Black, British female of Jamaican heritage and like the majority of people in the UK I attended a comprehensive secondary school. I am from a single parent family and our level of income meant that I qualified for free schools meals. This is not the typical background or profile for an architect, a board member or a professional.

While only 7% of the UK population attend independent schools, according to Alan Milburn's report on Social Mobility: Fair Access to the Professions, 75% of people in professional roles have been schooled independently. And this report highlights that it’s not just an independent education that provides a sound platform for progression, it also accesses to networks of people and connections which help to open up opportunities.  This begs the questions: What role is state education playing in nurturing talent? And, how can the majority access the support and networks necessary to fulfil their potential?

In some ways, my personal profile, like my professional life is complex and multi-layered, no one aspect of which fully defines me. And I believe it is not only one aspect of a profile that impacts the ability to progress.  

The need for a holistic approach

It is only by understanding how diversity characteristics interact with each other (i.e. those which are protected and those which are acquired) that we can really and truly address difference, diversity and discrimination.


“If we aren’t intersectional, some of us, the most vulnerable, will fall through the cracks”

Kimberle Williams Crenshaw


What this means for me is that  if we as a sector and as individuals are to truly address discrimination, we need to be taking a holistic approach, recognising the individual and combined impact of protected characteristics such as gender and race, but also encompassing income, caring responsibilities and all the places where those strands overlap. And ideally, the solution should be created and co-designed with the input of those impacted.

For individuals pursuing their aspirations in architecture who are impacted by intersectionality, trying to navigate the barriers of gender, class and ethnicity can be exhausting. Not surprisingly many are put off before they even start; they may drop away during their studies or within the first few years of qualifying.

The RIBA did a piece of work looking at the average time it takes to qualify as an architect. On average it’s 9.5 years in the UK.

Looking in more depth at the RIBA’s data on education there are reasons to be positive and it would appear that efforts to widen participation are making an impact. In 2015/16 there were 3,741 new entrants to Part 1 full-time courses. Of the total number of full-time entrants to Part 1, 49% were female. 32% of those Part 1 students were from Black and Ethnic Minority (BAME) backgrounds. While this sounds positive it is worth noting that the data set includes students from around the world.


Retaining Talent

According to RIBA around 1,000 people, on average, each year, take and pass the Part 3 exam which allows them to register as an architect. Of that number around 35% of passes are achieved by women, 11% are BAME and 1% identify as Black British, that’s as few as 10 a year.

Given my background and heritage, it is clear to see that the chances of my becoming an architect were statistically unlikely. It’s incredible to think that when I qualified I may have been just one of a handful of black British women to become an architect that year.

However, the challenges I have faced on my career journey are not just about gender or educational structures, access to networks, stereotyping or access to financial support, all of which work together against the most vulnerable to create a series of barriers.

In order to address diversity and inclusion, we need to be looking at all of these issues holistically. We need to address the entire talent supply chain, the image of our industry, practical support and create a cohort of inclusive leaders. We need to see diversity as an opportunity for disruption.

So what might a more holistic approach look like?

The FLUID Diversity Mentoring Programme

It started at Architects for Change and is now run by Built By Us as part of our mission to diversify the construction sector. Our vision is for a construction sector that reflects the society it serves.

We do that by connecting diverse talent with opportunities in construction, supporting companies on their journey to being inclusive workplaces and fostering inclusive and diverse leadership through mentoring interventions.

Why FLUID? Started in 2012 it was developed to address under-representation and the higher levels of attrition for diverse talent. FLUID is designed to aid career progression and most importantly to help develop leadership skills.

The programme encourages applications from women, black and minority ethnic (BAME), those disadvantaged socioeconomically, LGBT people and people with disabilities.

FLUID uses a traditional model of mentoring, i.e. someone more experienced paired with someone less experienced. But we also leverage the opportunity for cross-discipline knowledge transfer by attracting a pan-professional cohort of mentors.

We support people at key stages of their careers, which means the mentees can be from student through to managerial level.

What does it involve? Mentors and mentees are matched for 12-month partnerships. We are currently in the midst of matching the 2017-2018 cohort, which we believe will be the largest one yet.

Back in 2012, we started with 20 pairings and over 5 years we’ve facilitated mentoring partnerships benefiting over 125 mentees, who have gone on to become leaders in their organisations.


The potential for apprenticeships

For more than 50 years architecture and other professions have favoured higher education as the principal pathway and despite major changes in funding the structure has remained constant.

Contracting organisations over this period have been contributing to an apprenticeship training fund via the Industrial Training Boards or ITBs. With a new levy, there is a real opportunity for the professions to engage with apprenticeships, and work has already begun.

A group of 20 practices and educators in architecture convened at the RIBA and began this journey in September 2016. The need to address the cost of education and the effect that this is having on the profile of architects emerging from schools of architecture was identified as a key challenge.


Two apprenticeship standards have been approved by the Department of Education for further development: Architectural Assistant (level 6 - Part 1 equivalent) and Architect (level 7, beyond part 1). It is hoped that 2018 will see the first architecture apprentices beginning their training. And as long as the quality of the courses and rewards ensure that the widest talent pool can access the profession, this could have the potential of making architecture and other professional careers an option for all.

The tools are being put into place, but they are only as good as we are, in terms of crafting the industry we wish to see and ensuring that talent is no longer wasted.

Apprenticeships and Diversity - The Business Mix Podcast

Check out the Business Mix Podcast with the awesome Christine Addy and Rachael Palmer and Danna Walker, Founder of Built By Us.

Click below to find out what inspired Built By Us, how apprenticeships work and why diversity matters.

Follow the Business Mix on Twitter @TheBMixShow 

The Business Mix Show is broadcast on Colourful Radio http://www.colourfulradio.com/ 


Learning to Lead Through Mentoring

 Image courtesy of Rachel Cherry Photographer

Image courtesy of Rachel Cherry Photographer

Leadership can be a difficult skill to define but most of us know almost instinctively when we see or experience poor leadership. Research in the US and UK has shown that excellent leadership impacts positively on profitability, with incomes increased 200 - 300% compared with organisations with good leaders. So what is leadership and is this a skill that can be taught?

“Leadership is a process of social influence which maximises the efforts of others towards an achievement or goal”

Web Definition

Leadership is a distinctive set of skills and responsibilities which may overlap but are normally quite different to management skills. As we begin what many are calling the Fourth Industrial Age, what we have previously accepted as good leadership will probably need to adapt.

“Ensuring successful adaptation against a backdrop of increasing uncertainty and complexity means leadership becomes less about directive structured approaches seeking predictable outcomes and more about empowering others to make effective and timely decisions.”

Giles Hutchins Leadership of the Future, The Guardian


And now the tricky question: Can leadership be taught? Many organisations and we see this particularly in the UK construction sector, seem to believe that leadership ability comes naturally or that it can be developed while undertaking a management role. I believe that leadership skills can be fostered and taught and that we will need a wider range of leaders to meet our future needs.

While commentators differ on exactly what constitutes key leadership skills, here’s a list of the attributes which many agree on:

  1. Awareness
  2. Accountability
  3. Confidence
  4. Optimism
  5. Empathy
  6. Creativity
  7. Positivity
  8. Trustworthiness
  9. Communication
  10. Responsibility

Interestingly the majority of the skills needed for optimal leadership are also needed in good mentors and these can be developed through effective mentoring relationships particularly in a structured programme.

"Mentoring is a process for the informal transmission of knowledge, social capital and the psychosocial support perceived by the recipient as relevant to work, career or professional development; mentoring entails informal communication, usually face-to-face and during a sustained period of time, between a person who is perceived to have greater relevant knowledge, wisdom or experience (the mentor) and a person who is perceived to have less (the protégé or mentee)." (Bozeman, Feeney, 2007)

Mentoring builds leadership skills by requiring participants to actively listen, which helps with building Empathy and Communication skills. It helps to create regular Reflective Practice encouraging greater Self Awareness. As a mentor, it is important not to jump into the role of directing the mentee but to act as a sounding board helping the partner to better understand themselves while gaining confidence in their own perspective and judgement.

Trustworthiness is built into the process as the rapport between the partners develops. And within the FLUID Diversity Mentoring Programme model, we have encouraged Accountability through the use of coaching techniques to identify goals and implement an action plan.

Mentoring offers huge opportunities to grow the leadership skills required from the people already in your business, also allowing people who may not yet be in a supervisory or managerial position to use the skills and competencies required.

Whether mentoring is delivered as an in-house programme or external opportunity it is worth considering the use of this 3,000-year-old strategy as a way of learning to lead.


Built By Us is on a mission to connect diverse talent to construction businesses, support companies on their journey to becoming inclusive workplaces and develop leaders through mentoring.

Contact us to find out how we can help.

How to tell your daughter 'she’s not worth it'…


I am writing this piece from the Southbank Centre which has become one of the go-to venues in London for university graduation ceremonies. It looks like a fun event, beaming students adjusting their ceremonial gowns, hugging fellow graduates and attempting to mimic that iconic image of mortar boards being thrown into the air (while trying not to take their guests’ eyes out!).

Incredibly proud parents dressed to the nines, try their best not to well-up and to capture every moment of the pomp and ceremony. It’s a huge investment of blood, sweat, tears and cash to put your children through university in the UK. According to NUS figures the average cost, per student, per academic year, is £10,133.

But, as I watch I wonder, at what point, if any, do parents who have invested equally in the futures of their sons and daughter, and watched as their children struggle with the same student anxieties, have the conversation about their value? And specifically, in the world of work, how their daughters will experience unfairness from the moment they begin their working lives - how do you tell your daughters that in the most jobs they are considered less valuable than their brothers?

In the largest piece of research conducted by the UK government in 2016, it was reported that within one year of graduation the majority of women will face a gender pay gap which then widens over time.



Excuses, Excuses

The Equal Pay Act came into force in the UK in 1970 so this is not a new issue, and unfortunately, though the lives of women have changed in many ways since equal pay passed into law, the excuses for the chronic underpayment of women remain almost unchanged. Here are some of the common ones:

1. Women are choosing to work in roles which attract less pay - a popular assumption by many but the data shows that women are paid less in almost all roles including those with pay grades.

“Even in nursing, a course dominated by women students, men were still earning about £2,000 more just a year after graduation”

Source Guardian article 14th June 2017

2. Women are less skilled. Again, women are paid less at all levels, and interestingly, while the gap has narrowed slightly in the UK, it varies in relation to seniority.

“For high earners (top decile), the gap for full-time employees has remained largely consistent, fluctuating approximately 20 per cent (18.8 per cent in 2016).”

Source Equal Pay Portal http://www.equalpayportal.co.uk/statistics/

3. But women “go off” and have children. For me, this makes no sense in the 21st century. It is an incredibly odd thing to say that we apply a tax to half the planet based on the idea that whoever is ensuring the survival of humankind automatically provides less value.

It’s a form of tax that pays no dividends (except for employers) and ensures pound for pound women always pay more for investing in their careers. There is no discount on student fees or professional membership for women - here there is absolute equality!

Continuing this pernicious practice into the 21st century is not just plain wrong, it ignores the strides made by women in transforming themselves and society. And while the UK government makes efforts to challenge the pay gap for women, it is also key to look in depth at how intersectional issues are further compounding messages on value being received by, for example, disabled women and women of colour.

Consigned to history

Should things continue as they are, it is predicted it would take 52 years to arrive at equal pay for equal work. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if the graduates I saw celebrating at the Southbank could speak about this with their children as something consigned to history, like women not being able to vote or attend university at all? Wouldn’t it be wonderful if they never ever have to have a conversation with their daughters about equal pay?